Oklahoma Ministry Wives

Whether your husband services in the local church, association or collegiate ministry, we want to partner with you as you serve alongside your husband in ministry. The BGCO Women’s office offers the following ways for you to connect and be encouraged.

Ministry Wives Appreciation Month

Oklahoma Baptists may remember a special motion offered at the BGCO Annual Meeting in November 2018. The motion requested for a month of appreciation in recognition of the wives of ministers, including pastors, staff ministers, evangelists, and directors of missions. Messengers voted with overwhelming support in honor of women who serve in such a vital role within the life of the church. As a result, a new tradition has begun in the state of Oklahoma. August will be dedicated to the encouragement and support of ministry wives.

Within the church calendar, August is often spent wrapping up the busy activities of summer, such as camps, mission trips, and Vacation Bible School. Many wives are welcoming their husbands back home from extended time away at various back-to-back events. August is a great month to show appreciation for these special women before the busyness hits of the new school year, kickoff of Fall activities and Promotion Sunday.

There are many practical, inexpensive ways to encourage the ministry wives in your church or association:
– Mail handwritten letters. This is always a source of great encouragement.
– Provide a home cooked meal from your small group for the minister’s family.
– Collect money for a gift card or thoughtful present.
– Plan a craft for the nursery or elementary aged children to gift to the staff wives.
– Spend quality time with your minister’s wife by planning a fun night with friends.

Finally, never underestimate the power of your words. Affirming the service and care of your minister’s wife is greatly appreciated. A simple thank you is always welcomed.

Another way to show appreciation to the ministry wives in your church is by providing them a weekend away to be refreshed and encouraged. Each year, the BGCO Women’s office plans a retreat for wives to connect and care for one another. Tulsa, First Baptist will host this special weekend on September 20-21, 2019. The cost of the event is $50. Out of town guests plan to stay at the nearby Holiday Inn Express Tulsa Downtown. Registration and rooms can be booked through the BGCO Women’s website at BGCOwomen.org. For more information, call the Women’s Office at 405.942.3800 x 4324.

Furthermore, in the month of August, we encourage you to find time on an August Sunday morning to recognize these women. Our prayer is this encouragement will advance the Gospel as they continue the work God has called them to in their homes, church, and community.

September 20 – 21, 2019

Each year, we coordinate a weekend event for Ministry Wives. This weekend allows you an opportunity to gather with others who are like-minded. You will be refreshed as we fellowship and encourage one another.

Connect with us! 

We love staying up-to-date with Ministry Wives across our state!  In this place, we share prayer requests, encourage one another, and even have our own book club!


Flourish is an online equipping community for Ministry Wives created by the North American Mission Board. They provide resources and encouragement designed specifically for you!

Partnership Opportunities

Ministry Wives have a great opportunity to connect to ministry wives around the world. Learn more about our partnerships in Mexico, Edmonton, and Latvia!